Elvis Costello – Welcome to the Working Week
It’s the first Monday since we set the clocks back and it’s always such a shock to my system to walk out the office and discover it’s nighttime. I was able to get outside during the day for a little bit but I don’t have a window in my office so I forgot that it was going to be truly dark.
I told myself yesterday that I was finally going to see the advantage of the return to standard time because I have this early meeting on Mondays and I’m forever racing to get there on time. I thought now it will be easier to get up because it will be lighter in the morning and I won’t be as tired because my body will still be on the old clock. Uh, not so much. I made it in ten minutes before the meeting, instead of zero minutes or being a hair late.
My daughter graduated from college this summer and now she has a “real” job, 9:00-5:00. Even though she was working full-time over the summer, it was just an extension of the student job she had had for the past three years so it didn’t feel as serious. It has been a rough transition for her. The job itself is fine but adjusting to the fact that now this is what your life will be like – get up, go to a job, come home, eat, repeat – that part is hard. We talked to her on the phone this evening and she joked, “Can’t I be a stay-at-home daughter?” I did not say, “Welcome to the working week, oh I know it don’t thrill you, I hope it don’t kill you,” but I sure as hell heard that in my head.
Our kids are the same age! We have assured ours that we had to nap EXTENSIVELY when we first started working full time. Not to mention how difficult it is to cook for yourself. Ours has new respect for our tales of youthful hardship. For me, reality hit tonight when the streets were full of neighbors frantically walking our dogs before it got dark at 4:50.
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Yes, one of her chief complaints is having to feed herself. I sympathize with that since I’m not all that interested in cooking for myself (not to mention other people!) either.
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