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Vampire Weekend – Unbelievers

After work I met up with a friend for happy hour. She used to work in the office next to mine but she started a new job about a year ago so we try to get together every couple of months to catch up.

Since we didn’t have a ton of time and we had a bunch of things to update each other on, we didn’t dwell on the shit happening in the world post-election. Acknowledge, express disgust, move on. As a result, I felt like today was one of the most normal days I’ve had in a while.

I can’t go to happy hour every night, once a month would even be a lot for me, but having something else to do after work besides just going home, having dinner, and doomscrolling the evening away, feels healthier. I will have to find a new hobby or something. It’s dark before I get out of work so it would need to be an indoor thing. If only I could work up some enthusiasm for decluttering my house.

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Vampire Weekend – Campus

Today my daughter and I toured another college campus. She’s a senior in high school and while we visited a bunch back in April, I had felt there was plenty of time to do schools in New England when we both had more time in the fall.

There is never more time in the fall, I don’t know what I was thinking. But summer isn’t really a good time since many college campuses don’t have much going on and work was super busy for me, she also had a summer job, so here we are.

I’m sure you all remember that I was not enamored with my college experience. While I have tried really hard not to make this whole process be some kind of attempt to re-do my own college search, I think I have some valuable knowledge and if I can help my kids have good options available to them, then I’m going to do what I can to make that happen.

I was talking with my mom this evening about the campus we toured today and she surprised me by saying that she feels badly now that she didn’t take me around to look at schools. I told her she shouldn’t feel that way because how could she have taken me anywhere, when we were living in Maine and I was determined to go south of the Mason-Dixon line. Plus, my junior year grades were, shall we say, not my best work so it probably would have just made my disappointment greater when I got all those rejection letters. Besides, with my oldest sisters at Yale, and my mother’s job at a small liberal arts college, it’s not like I didn’t already have an image in mind of what college should be like. Therein lies the problem; nowhere I could have gotten in was ever going to match up to my expectations.

My daughter is less specific about where she wants to go. I think it still feels so far in the future to her that she hasn’t been able to put herself in the mindset of being done with high school and away from home. Going on campus tours definitely helps. With the deadline to get her applications finished looming, I thought reminding her about the end goal might motivate her a little. If that backfires, I’m moving on to bribes.